GRACE'S MUSINGS: No one’s to stop me

One of my all-time favourite books is Ayn Rand's The Fountainhead. The protagonist, Howard Roark, has always fascinated me with his relentless pursuit of his own vision, completely undeterred by societal expectations or conventions.

That spirit is perfectly summed up in Rand's powerful quote: "The question isn't who's going to let me; it's who's going to stop me."

A personal journey of self-determination
I still remember in my twenties picking up The Fountainhead. Roark's unwavering commitment to his principles really struck a chord deep within me.

Here was someone who refused to compromise, who didn't seek approval, and who wasn't afraid to stand alone. It made me reflect and all the times I've hesitated, waiting for permission or external validation before moving forward.

Breaking free from seeking permission
Growing up, I often felt the need for some sort of ‘green light’ before taking action. There was always that nagging question: Will others approve, more so, will my parents?

Constantly seeking approval was not only limiting but also unnecessary. The real question I needed to ask myself was: Do I believe in this? Once I really started trusting my own judgement and capabilities, a world of possibilities opened up and at 27 I co-founded a company.

Embracing resilience
I try hard to adopt the mindset of "Who's going to stop me?" - with hurdles and obstacles transformed into stepping stones. Setbacks were no longer failures; they became opportunities to learn, adapt, and grow stronger.

Women as unstoppable forces
As a female entrepreneur, Rand's words resonate deeply with me. It's a potent reminder that we shouldn't be confined by traditional roles or expectations.

When we shift our focus from seeking permission to asserting our right to pursue our ambitions, we unlock our potential to become unstoppable forces of change. We pave the way for others.

Living authentically
The Fountainhead was so much more than a good read; it provided a blueprint for living authentically. It helped me to prioritise my own values and convictions, It helped me to prioritise my own values and convictions, rather than being wracked by a need for approval.

Conclusion
Ayn Rand's quote is more than a bold statement; it's a call to action. It's an invitation for us to embrace our inner strength and recognise that seeking permission isn't necessary when it comes to pursuing our dreams.

So, the next time you find yourself hesitating, waiting for someone else's approval, ask yourself: "Who's going to stop me?"

After all, the only person who can truly stop you - is you.